Category Archive: Musings

Jan
27

Dream Home

A family photo taken August 2010

With Matt gone and the weather rather grey, I’ve been spending more than my fair share of time on Pinterest. Most people have a board related to their dream home with photos of lovely wrap-around porches and gorgeous cozy gardens full of fairy lights and comfy chairs. But I’m kind of taken with the life …

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Jan
23

You cant step in the same river twice

The kids' first Metro ride in Helsinki (October 2010). Some people spend a lifetime trying to see what my kids have seen in the past 16 months.

The Greek philosopher Heraclitus said, according to Plato, that you cannot step in the same river twice due to the constantly-changing nature of the river. It’s a pretty good metaphor for expat life, especially when that expat life involves moving every 2-4 years. I think I’ve mentioned before that I lived in the same general area of a not …

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Nov
01

Distopian Dream Girl

October was a quiet month at Terminal Verbosity. Not only was I busy indulging my francophile tendencies with an amazing trip to Provence, but I was also busy planning my second novel and first National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo for short) effort. Yes, that means that November will be kind of quiet around here as …

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Oct
04

Gabriel Patrick, my September Angel

Gabriel as a newborn

Another September has come and gone. I can already feel the days getting shorter and the light is definitely beginning to wane. Always a month of transition, September has been particularly difficult for me the past five years because the fourteenth of the month marks the untimely death of my father. Although that day was …

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Aug
30

Pirate Beach, and Other Foibles of the Expat Life

a photo of the beach

When I went to live in France as a student in 1996, I had the choice of living on the International floor in the dorms, living with a host family, or living in an apartment with French students. At a time when I was particularly interested in asserting my independence, but still keen to immerse …

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Aug
24

Wordless Wednesday – Moat Garden, Windsor Castle

dragonfly

Check out more of this week’s Wordless Wednesday submissions too!

Aug
14

When the Comforts of Home Run Out

photo of a 40 foot shipping container

The kids and I arrived in Finland nine months ago almost to the day. Nine and a half months ago, then, we packed everything we owned into a 40′ shipping container and sent it off on a long journey via train, boat, and truck to our new home in Helsinki. We had decluttered enough of …

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Aug
11

On the road again…

a photograph of our new car

When we moved to Finland last fall, we made a conscious decision to live in city-center and rely on public transport. This seemed reasonable for several reasons: Gabriel’s school is just a few kilometers away, we live right by a tram stop, and we were heading into icy winter driving conditions. I congratulated myself for …

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Aug
10

Back to School!

A photo of Gabriel's first day of kindergarten, 2010

I’ve never been one of those moms who cried at milestones. I’ve looked forward to the first solid food, the first steps, the first loose tooth, and even the first day of school. It’s hard not to be excited when your kids are absolutely desperate to escape you and each otherover the moon at the …

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Jun
13

Big Important Things

Not navel-gazing

When I was five years old, I remember people asking me what I wanted to be when I grew up. Makes sense. I do it now all the time with my own children because what they say is so darned funny (Gabriel alternates between paleontologist, astronaut, caveman, and bad guy, while Lily says things like …

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